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The Crush Confidential Featured in Toronto Sun: Why Communication Styles Aren’t One-Size-Fits-All

Posted on September 17, 2025September 17, 2025 by Amanda Hood

We’re thrilled to share that The Crush Confidential was recently featured in the Toronto Sun! The article, written by relationship columnist Simone Paget, explored how communication styles can make or break connections in modern dating.

Amanda Hood, founder of The Crush Confidential, shared her perspective:

“In today’s dating culture, texts are where new relationships go to die.”

Her insight was included alongside expert commentary from psychologists and relationship therapists, underscoring the importance of communication beyond just words on a screen.

Why This Feature Matters

In the Toronto Sun article, Amanda joined experts like Suzannah Weiss, a sex and relationship therapist, and couples therapist Thomas Westenholz, to discuss the nuances of communication in relationships.

The feature highlighted how:

Voice notes can add warmth and intimacy, but may also create a false sense of closeness.
Texting is convenient, but prone to misinterpretation and emotional distance.
Face-to-face interactions remain the most effective way to truly connect and avoid misunderstandings.

Amanda’s contribution emphasized what we see every day at The Crush Confidential: compatibility isn’t just about values or lifestyle, but also about how people express themselves and build connection.

Our Approach at The Crush Confidential

At The Crush Confidential, we believe that great relationships start with great communication. That’s why our luxury matchmaking services don’t just focus on introductions — we also coach our clients on how to navigate communication styles effectively.

Whether it’s setting healthy boundaries around texting, encouraging more phone and FaceTime conversations, or guiding couples toward meaningful in-person interactions, we take a holistic approach.

Want to learn more about how we help clients? Explore our story on why the three-date model works for building authentic connections.

A Growing Conversation in Modern Dating

The Toronto Sun feature reminds us that communication is more than a preference — it’s a reflection of emotional needs, attachment styles, and how people connect in today’s fast-paced world.

For example:

Suzannah Weiss points out that texts can easily be misread, leading to unnecessary tension.
Couples therapist Thomas Westenholz highlights how our brains fill in gaps negatively when tone and body language are missing.
Amanda Hood emphasizes that relying too heavily on texting often undermines the very intimacy people are trying to build.

Final Thoughts

We’re honored to be part of this important conversation featured in the Toronto Sun. Communication isn’t one-size-fits-all — but when approached intentionally, it can become the strongest foundation for love.

At The Crush Confidential, our mission is to help singles navigate modern dating with clarity, honesty, and heart.

👉 Learn more about our boutique matchmaking approach or book a call to see how we can support your journey to lasting love.

How to Talk to Your Kids About Your Dating Life (Without the Guilt)

Posted on July 16, 2025July 16, 2025 by Amanda Hood

Dating as a single parent can be emotional—and not just for you. The thought of talking to your kids about your dating life can bring up uncertainty, awkwardness, or even guilt.

But here’s a gentle reminder:
You’re allowed to want love.
And showing your kids what healthy relationships look like—at any stage of life—is a powerful, positive thing.

Here are five thoughtful tips for navigating this conversation with honesty and care:

1. **Get Clear on How You Feel First**

Before bringing your kids into the conversation, take a moment to reflect on where you’re at emotionally. Are you excited? Nervous? Unsure? A little bit of everything?

Being aware of your own feelings helps you approach the topic calmly and intentionally. Kids pick up on energy more than words—so when you feel steady, it helps them feel safe.

2. Adjust the Conversation to Their Age

Younger kids don’t need details. Older kids might have more questions. Keeping the message age-appropriate can ease tension and make the conversation more natural.

Younger kids:
“I’m going to spend time with a new friend. It’s someone who makes me happy.”

Teens:
“I’ve decided to start dating again. It’s important for me to build connection, just like it is for anyone.”

You don’t need to over-explain. Just offer honest, simple information.

3. Reassure Them of Their Place in Your Life

One of the most important things kids need to hear is:
“You’re still my priority.”

Make it clear that dating doesn’t change how much they matter to you. Let them know that any relationship you pursue will only move forward if it’s healthy—for you and for them.

4. Don’t Introduce Everyone You Date

This one’s important: kids don’t need to meet every person you go on a few dates with. It’s often best to wait until a relationship feels stable before introducing someone new into your children’s world.

If and when you do make that introduction, keep it low-key. A short meeting at a neutral place (like a coffee shop or park) can feel more relaxed for everyone.

5. Make Space for Their Feelings

Even if you do everything “right,” your child might still feel uncomfortable, confused, or even upset. That’s okay. Let them feel what they feel without trying to fix it immediately.

You can say something like:
“I know this is new, and it’s okay to feel however you feel. I’m here to listen.”

A Final Thought

There’s no perfect script for this conversation, but the fact that you’re thinking about it means you care—and that matters most. You can be a loving, present parent and still make space for a fulfilling personal life.

It’s not about choosing one or the other. It’s about building a life where both can exist in harmony.

Featured on Now in the Nati: Why It’s Time for Single Parents to Prioritize Love

Posted on July 9, 2025July 9, 2025 by Amanda Hood

We were honored to be featured in Now in the Nati, where Amanda shared what it really looks like to date as a single parent—and why it’s more than just possible… it’s powerful.

At The Crush Confidential, 95% of our clients are single parents. That’s not a typo. Most of the incredible people we work with are juggling carpools, careers, and co-parenting—while still carving out space for love. And while that can feel daunting, it’s absolutely doable with the right mindset (and the right matchmaker).

Here’s the truth Amanda shared:
Lifestyle alignment is everything. When you’re a single parent, compatibility isn’t just about chemistry—it’s about rhythm. Does this person understand what your Tuesday night looks like with three kids and a soccer tournament? Are they someone who supports the kind of life you’ve built—not someone who makes you feel like you have to explain or apologize for it?

We don’t just match based on interests or physical attraction—we dig into how you live, what you value, and what your day-to-day really looks like. Because that’s what determines lasting connection.

And for our empty nesters, Amanda had another piece of advice:
Don’t box yourself in geographically.
Maybe your kids are grown. Maybe your life is more flexible than it’s ever been. This is your chance to expand your horizons. Your soulmate might not live in your zip code—or even your state. That’s why we encourage open minds and open hearts when it comes to location.

Finally, Amanda reminds single parents to prioritize their dating life. Yes, your time is limited. But love is not selfish. Making room for it doesn’t take away from your kids—it sets an example for what healthy, joyful relationships look like.

So if you’re a single parent who’s been putting love on the back burner, consider this your sign:
Your story isn’t on pause. It’s just beginning.

👉 Watch the full interview on Now in the Nati here:
The Crush Confidential on Dating as a Single Parent