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Amanda Hood Featured on Out N About Columbus

Posted on May 14, 2026May 14, 2026 by Amanda Hood

Modern dating has created more access than ever before.

More apps.
More matches.
More conversations.

And yet, many singles feel less connected than ever.

That’s exactly what Amanda Hood, founder of The Crush Confidential, recently discussed during her feature on Out N About Columbus — sharing why so many successful singles are walking away from traditional dating culture and looking for something more intentional.

Because today, people aren’t struggling to meet others.

They’re struggling to build meaningful connection.

Why The Crush Confidential Was Built Differently

During the feature, Amanda shared what separates The Crush Confidential from traditional matchmaking services.

The company operates as a full-service relationship curation agency, working with commitment-minded singles nationwide — primarily adults ages 40–65 who are genuinely ready for partnership.

Not casual dating.
Not endless swiping.
Not another situationship.

Real relationships.

At The Crush Confidential, the focus has never been on generating the highest number of dates.

It’s about creating the right introductions between people who are aligned in lifestyle, values, communication style, and long-term relationship goals.

The Problem With Modern Dating

One of the biggest issues in today’s dating culture is speed.

People expect:

Instant chemistry
Immediate certainty
Constant communication
Fast emotional progression

And when things don’t unfold perfectly within a date or two, many connections are abandoned before they ever had the chance to develop naturally.

But real relationships rarely work that way.

Most healthy relationships are built gradually:

Through consistency
Through comfort
Through emotional safety
Through repeated interaction over time

That’s why intentional dating matters now more than ever.

The 3-Date Model: Giving Connection Room to Build

A major part of Amanda’s feature focused on The Crush Confidential’s signature 3-Date Model — a guided matchmaking approach designed to help connections unfold more naturally.

Because one date is rarely enough to determine long-term compatibility.

Nerves, assumptions, past experiences, and pressure often interfere with what could have been a great connection.

Instead of expecting immediate perfection, the 3-Date Model creates space for:

Better communication
Reduced pressure
Deeper understanding
Genuine chemistry to emerge naturally

It shifts dating away from snap judgments and back toward human connection.

And in today’s dating environment, that shift is powerful.

Why Intentional Dating Is Growing

More singles — especially successful professionals over 40 — are becoming increasingly selective about how they date.

Not because they’ve given up on love.

But because they value:

Their time
Their energy
Their emotional well-being

They’re no longer interested in:

Casual ambiguity
Endless texting
Inconsistent effort
Relationships with no direction

They want clarity.
Consistency.
Partnership.

And intentional matchmaking offers exactly that.

Dating Differently in 2026

The dating landscape is changing quickly.

Apps created convenience — but not necessarily compatibility.

Now, many singles are returning to something far more effective:

Human insight
Personalized introductions
Guidance and support
Relationship-focused dating

That’s why boutique matchmaking continues to grow nationwide.

People aren’t looking for more options anymore.

They’re looking for better ones.

The Bottom Line

Amanda’s feature on Out N About Columbus highlighted something we believe deeply at The Crush Confidential:

Real relationships aren’t rushed.

They’re built intentionally.

They’re built through communication, consistency, and compatibility — not endless swiping or surface-level attraction.

Because the goal was never simply to date more.

It was always to build something meaningful that actually lasts.

Amanda Hood Named One of Maxim’s Top 10 Matchmakers & Relationship Coaches to Follow in 2026

Posted on May 11, 2026May 11, 2026 by Amanda Hood

The dating world is changing rapidly.

Between dating app fatigue, ghosting culture, AI-generated conversations, and a growing desire for genuine human connection, more singles are turning toward something far more intentional: professional matchmaking.

That’s why we’re incredibly honored that Amanda Hood, founder of The Crush Confidential, was recently recognized in Maxim as one of the Top Matchmakers & Relationship Coaches To Follow in 2026.

The feature highlighted leading relationship experts across the country who are redefining what modern dating looks like — especially for busy professionals, executives, and relationship-minded singles who are no longer interested in wasting time on surface-level connections.

And for us, this recognition represents something much bigger than press.

It reflects a shift happening across the entire dating industry.

Matchmaking Is No Longer a Luxury Reserved for Celebrities

For years, matchmaking was viewed as something reserved for ultra-high-net-worth individuals or public figures.

Today, that perception is changing.

More successful singles are realizing that while they’ve mastered their careers, businesses, and personal growth, dating has become increasingly difficult to navigate alone.

Not because they aren’t attractive or accomplished.

But because modern dating has become noisy.

Too many options.
Too little clarity.
Very little intentionality.

That’s where professional matchmaking changes everything.

Why More Singles Are Turning Away From Dating Apps

The reality is simple: many people are exhausted.

They’re tired of:

Endless swiping
Inconsistent communication
Situationships
Conversations that never lead anywhere
Trying to build meaningful relationships in environments designed for volume instead of compatibility

At The Crush Confidential, we’ve seen a growing number of clients seeking something entirely different.

Not more matches.

Better ones.

What Makes The Crush Confidential Different

One of the things highlighted in the feature was Amanda Hood’s unique approach to matchmaking — particularly her proprietary three-date model.

Because introductions alone are rarely enough.

Many relationships that could have succeeded fall apart in the earliest stages due to:

Miscommunication
Anxiety
Premature assumptions
Lack of guidance

Instead of simply making introductions and disappearing, Amanda actively supports clients through the earliest phase of connection — where most modern relationships either build momentum or quietly dissolve.

This creates something most people rarely experience in dating today:

Clarity.

Matchmaking Is About More Than Finding Someone

At its core, high-level matchmaking isn’t just about access to eligible people.

It’s about transformation.

Over the years, Amanda has worked with successful, relationship-minded singles who often discover that the biggest shift isn’t simply meeting the right person.

It’s learning:

How to communicate more effectively
How to recognize healthy connection sooner
How to stop repeating old patterns
How to date intentionally instead of reactively

The right relationship starts long before the relationship itself.

The Return of Human Connection

One of the most powerful themes emerging in dating right now is the desire for real connection again.

Not curated personas.
Not perfectly crafted text messages.
Not endless options.

Real people.
Real compatibility.
Real partnership.

And that’s exactly why matchmaking continues to grow.

Because while technology may continue evolving, the desire for meaningful connection remains deeply human.

Why This Recognition Matters

Being recognized alongside some of the country’s leading matchmakers and relationship experts is an incredible honor for Amanda and The Crush Confidential.

But more importantly, it reinforces the mission the company has always had from the beginning:

To create intentional, lasting relationships in a dating culture that often prioritizes convenience over connection.

At The Crush Confidential, the goal was never simply more dates.

It was always helping clients build one relationship that truly fits the life they’ve created.

And in today’s dating landscape, that matters more than ever.

How Communication Strengthens Relationships: Amanda Hood Featured on Spectrum News

Posted on January 29, 2026January 29, 2026 by Amanda Hood

As we approach the end of the year, many people naturally begin reflecting on their relationships — what’s working, what isn’t, and what they want to do differently moving forward. In a recent Spectrum News feature, How to Use Communication to Strengthen Your Relationships, Amanda Hood, founder of The Crush Confidential, shared expert insight on why communication is the foundation of meaningful connection — and where so many people go wrong.

After eight years of working closely with singles and couples, Amanda has seen firsthand how communication can either build intimacy or quietly dismantle it.

Why So Many People Feel Disconnected

One of the most powerful takeaways from the Spectrum News segment is a simple truth: people are craving real connection.

As relationship expert and author Ravi Rajani explained in the feature, many individuals today are starved of human connection. Despite constant access to technology, genuine communication has become harder — not easier.

Amanda sees this daily in her matchmaking work.

“Relationships are like a dance,” she shared. “And especially in a duet, it takes a lot of nonverbal communication to stay coordinated.”

The challenge? Many singles are trying to dance without ever learning their partner’s rhythm.

The Hidden Communication Breakdown Behind Ghosting

One of the biggest issues Amanda highlighted in the interview is ghosting — when someone you’ve been dating suddenly disappears without explanation.

In her experience, ghosting isn’t always intentional or malicious. More often, it’s the result of severe miscommunication.

Amanda explained that it’s not uncommon for both people in a new connection to believe they’ve been ghosted.

“They’ve gone out, they’ve had a date or two and things seem great,” she said. “Then when I follow up, both parties say they were ghosted.”

Why does this happen?

Because early on, people don’t yet understand each other’s:

Without clarity and guidance, assumptions take over — and connection breaks down.

Why The Crush Confidential Uses a Three-Date Model

Amanda’s approach to matchmaking is intentionally different. At The Crush Confidential, she uses a three-date model designed to help new matches communicate more effectively before making snap judgments.

The goal isn’t pressure — it’s perspective.

Three dates allow people to:

Move past first-date nerves
Observe communication patterns
Understand emotional cues
Clarify interest instead of assuming disinterest

This structure alone prevents countless misunderstandings and helps singles make decisions rooted in clarity, not fear.

The Communication Habit to Leave Behind in 2025

One of the strongest messages from the Spectrum News feature was the importance of how we communicate — not just how often.

According to Rajani, one habit to leave behind is dominating the conversation.

Talking at someone, over-explaining, or offering unsolicited advice shuts down connection. True communication requires curiosity.

Amanda agrees.

Strong relationships are built when both people feel seen, heard, and understood — not talked over.

Listening Beyond Words

Effective communication isn’t just verbal. Amanda emphasizes the importance of paying attention to what isn’t being said.

Tone, body language, energy, and emotional responses all tell a story.

When people slow down and truly listen — instead of preparing their next response — connection deepens naturally.

This skill is especially critical in early dating, when misunderstandings are most likely to occur.

Why Texting Can Hurt Relationships

One of Amanda’s most quoted lines from the feature was simple — and bold:

“Texting is where relationships go to die.”

While texting is convenient, it often lacks context, tone, and emotional nuance. Misinterpretation is easy, especially when people don’t yet know each other well.

Whenever possible, Amanda encourages voice or face-to-face communication — especially for meaningful conversations.

Back to the Basics: Strengthening Existing Relationships

For couples already in relationships, Amanda believes the solution isn’t complicated — it’s foundational.

Taking time each day to reconnect matters.

Even asking something as simple as:

“Tell me about your day.”

creates space for emotional intimacy and reassurance.

The Takeaway: Better Communication Creates Better Relationships

Whether single or coupled, Amanda’s message is clear: communication is the currency of connection.

When people invest time in understanding each other’s communication styles, emotional needs, and boundaries, relationships thrive.

As we head into 2026, Amanda hopes more people choose intentional communication — especially singles searching for a partner to build a life with.

“The resolve is better communication,” she shared. “Being able to build that relationship and learn their communication style — that’s what truly matters.”

At The Crush Confidential, communication isn’t just encouraged — it’s coached, guided, and supported every step of the way.

What Your Attachment Style Says About Your Love Life

Posted on October 22, 2025October 22, 2025 by Amanda Hood

When it comes to love, how you connect can be just as important as who you connect with. Understanding your attachment style can help you recognize patterns, improve communication, and ultimately build stronger, more fulfilling relationships.

At The Crush Confidential, we see this play out every day — from first introductions to long-term matches. Whether you’re anxiously checking your phone after a first date or tend to keep your guard up for too long, your attachment style can reveal valuable insights into your dating habits and emotional needs.

The Four Main Attachment Styles

Researchers in psychology have identified four key attachment styles that influence how we relate to others romantically.

1. Secure Attachment
If you have a secure attachment style, you likely feel comfortable with closeness and independence. You communicate openly, trust easily, and handle conflict with maturity. People with this style tend to thrive in long-term relationships because they aren’t afraid of emotional intimacy.

Tip: Keep leading with authenticity — and if you’re single, know that your confidence and emotional availability are deeply attractive qualities.

2. Anxious Attachment
Anxiously attached individuals crave closeness but often worry about being abandoned or rejected. You might overthink messages or feel uneasy when your partner pulls away.

At The Crush Confidential, we often encourage clients with this attachment style to slow down and focus on genuine compatibility rather than immediate reassurance. Real security comes from within.

3. Avoidant Attachment
If you tend to keep emotional distance or struggle to open up, you might fall into the avoidant category. Independence feels safe — but sometimes at the expense of deeper connection.

Avoidant individuals can benefit from intentional dating strategies that focus on gradual vulnerability and honest communication.

4. Anxious-Avoidant (or Fearful-Avoidant) Attachment
This combination can make dating feel like an emotional tug-of-war. You want love but fear it at the same time, leading to push-and-pull dynamics. Recognizing this pattern is the first step toward healing it — and toward healthier, more stable relationships.

How Attachment Styles Affect Dating

Your attachment style can shape everything — how you text, handle conflict, or even interpret a partner’s silence.
For example, in our recent Toronto Sun feature, Amanda Hood, founder of The Crush Confidential, explained how communication styles aren’t one-size-fits-all. Understanding emotional tendencies helps daters create space for honest dialogue and less misunderstanding.

If you recognize anxious or avoidant tendencies, working with a matchmaker can help you date differently — with more clarity, confidence, and emotional awareness.

Building Healthier Relationships

At The Crush Confidential, we guide clients to date with intention through our Three-Date Model — helping them explore connection beyond surface attraction and initial nerves. This approach gives time for trust and understanding to grow naturally, regardless of attachment style.

Want to see what your dating patterns might be telling you? Create your complimentary profile today, and let’s find someone who meets you where you are — and grows with you.

The Crush Confidential Featured in Toronto Sun: Why Communication Styles Aren’t One-Size-Fits-All

Posted on September 17, 2025September 17, 2025 by Amanda Hood

We’re thrilled to share that The Crush Confidential was recently featured in the Toronto Sun! The article, written by relationship columnist Simone Paget, explored how communication styles can make or break connections in modern dating.

Amanda Hood, founder of The Crush Confidential, shared her perspective:

“In today’s dating culture, texts are where new relationships go to die.”

Her insight was included alongside expert commentary from psychologists and relationship therapists, underscoring the importance of communication beyond just words on a screen.

Why This Feature Matters

In the Toronto Sun article, Amanda joined experts like Suzannah Weiss, a sex and relationship therapist, and couples therapist Thomas Westenholz, to discuss the nuances of communication in relationships.

The feature highlighted how:

Voice notes can add warmth and intimacy, but may also create a false sense of closeness.
Texting is convenient, but prone to misinterpretation and emotional distance.
Face-to-face interactions remain the most effective way to truly connect and avoid misunderstandings.

Amanda’s contribution emphasized what we see every day at The Crush Confidential: compatibility isn’t just about values or lifestyle, but also about how people express themselves and build connection.

Our Approach at The Crush Confidential

At The Crush Confidential, we believe that great relationships start with great communication. That’s why our luxury matchmaking services don’t just focus on introductions — we also coach our clients on how to navigate communication styles effectively.

Whether it’s setting healthy boundaries around texting, encouraging more phone and FaceTime conversations, or guiding couples toward meaningful in-person interactions, we take a holistic approach.

Want to learn more about how we help clients? Explore our story on why the three-date model works for building authentic connections.

A Growing Conversation in Modern Dating

The Toronto Sun feature reminds us that communication is more than a preference — it’s a reflection of emotional needs, attachment styles, and how people connect in today’s fast-paced world.

For example:

Suzannah Weiss points out that texts can easily be misread, leading to unnecessary tension.
Couples therapist Thomas Westenholz highlights how our brains fill in gaps negatively when tone and body language are missing.
Amanda Hood emphasizes that relying too heavily on texting often undermines the very intimacy people are trying to build.

Final Thoughts

We’re honored to be part of this important conversation featured in the Toronto Sun. Communication isn’t one-size-fits-all — but when approached intentionally, it can become the strongest foundation for love.

At The Crush Confidential, our mission is to help singles navigate modern dating with clarity, honesty, and heart.

👉 Learn more about our boutique matchmaking approach or book a call to see how we can support your journey to lasting love.

How to Talk to Your Kids About Your Dating Life (Without the Guilt)

Posted on July 16, 2025July 16, 2025 by Amanda Hood

Dating as a single parent can be emotional—and not just for you. The thought of talking to your kids about your dating life can bring up uncertainty, awkwardness, or even guilt.

But here’s a gentle reminder:
You’re allowed to want love.
And showing your kids what healthy relationships look like—at any stage of life—is a powerful, positive thing.

Here are five thoughtful tips for navigating this conversation with honesty and care:

1. **Get Clear on How You Feel First**

Before bringing your kids into the conversation, take a moment to reflect on where you’re at emotionally. Are you excited? Nervous? Unsure? A little bit of everything?

Being aware of your own feelings helps you approach the topic calmly and intentionally. Kids pick up on energy more than words—so when you feel steady, it helps them feel safe.

2. Adjust the Conversation to Their Age

Younger kids don’t need details. Older kids might have more questions. Keeping the message age-appropriate can ease tension and make the conversation more natural.

Younger kids:
“I’m going to spend time with a new friend. It’s someone who makes me happy.”

Teens:
“I’ve decided to start dating again. It’s important for me to build connection, just like it is for anyone.”

You don’t need to over-explain. Just offer honest, simple information.

3. Reassure Them of Their Place in Your Life

One of the most important things kids need to hear is:
“You’re still my priority.”

Make it clear that dating doesn’t change how much they matter to you. Let them know that any relationship you pursue will only move forward if it’s healthy—for you and for them.

4. Don’t Introduce Everyone You Date

This one’s important: kids don’t need to meet every person you go on a few dates with. It’s often best to wait until a relationship feels stable before introducing someone new into your children’s world.

If and when you do make that introduction, keep it low-key. A short meeting at a neutral place (like a coffee shop or park) can feel more relaxed for everyone.

5. Make Space for Their Feelings

Even if you do everything “right,” your child might still feel uncomfortable, confused, or even upset. That’s okay. Let them feel what they feel without trying to fix it immediately.

You can say something like:
“I know this is new, and it’s okay to feel however you feel. I’m here to listen.”

A Final Thought

There’s no perfect script for this conversation, but the fact that you’re thinking about it means you care—and that matters most. You can be a loving, present parent and still make space for a fulfilling personal life.

It’s not about choosing one or the other. It’s about building a life where both can exist in harmony.

Featured on Now in the Nati: Why It’s Time for Single Parents to Prioritize Love

Posted on July 9, 2025November 8, 2025 by Amanda Hood

We were honored to be featured in Now in the Nati, where Amanda shared what it really looks like to date as a single parent—and why it’s more than just possible… it’s powerful.

At The Crush Confidential, 95% of our clients are single parents. That’s not a typo. Most of the incredible people we work with are juggling carpools, careers, and co-parenting—while still carving out space for love. And while that can feel daunting, it’s absolutely doable with the right mindset (and the right matchmaker).

Here’s the truth Amanda shared:
Lifestyle alignment is everything. When you’re a single parent, compatibility isn’t just about chemistry—it’s about rhythm. Does this person understand what your Tuesday night looks like with three kids and a soccer tournament? Are they someone who supports the kind of life you’ve built—not someone who makes you feel like you have to explain or apologize for it?

We don’t just match based on interests or physical attraction—we dig into how you live, what you value, and what your day-to-day really looks like. Because that’s what determines lasting connection.

And for our empty nesters, Amanda had another piece of advice:
Don’t box yourself in geographically.
Maybe your kids are grown. Maybe your life is more flexible than it’s ever been. This is your chance to expand your horizons. Your soulmate might not live in your zip code—or even your state. That’s why we encourage open minds and open hearts when it comes to location.

Finally, Amanda reminds single parents to prioritize their dating life. Yes, your time is limited. But love is not selfish. Making room for it doesn’t take away from your kids—it sets an example for what healthy, joyful relationships look like.

So if you’re a single parent who’s been putting love on the back burner, consider this your sign:
Your story isn’t on pause. It’s just beginning.

👉 Watch the full interview on Now in the Nati here:
The Crush Confidential on Dating as a Single Parent