I always say that intentional dating starts with intentional spaces — and recently, I found one that immediately felt like home.
A few weeks ago, I stopped into Joui Wine in Downtown Dayton, and what I thought would be a quick glass of wine turned into a long, thoughtful conversation with its owner, Lauren Gay. We talked about entrepreneurship, taking risks, the power of community, and what it means to create an experience — not just a business.
What I love most is that Lauren launched Joui Wine right around the same time I opened The Crush Confidential. Two women, two visions, both rooted in elevating connection here in Dayton. There’s something special about supporting other local, female-owned businesses who are trying to bring a little more beauty, meaning, and intention into this city. That alignment is rare — and I could feel it instantly with her.
Lauren built Joui Wine with the same mindset that drives my work in matchmaking: slow down, savor the moment, and create an environment where people actually talk. And that’s exactly why this space has become one of my new favorite date-night recommendations.
My Experience at Joui Wine
Walking into Joui feels like entering a thoughtful, design-driven living room — warm lighting, modern interiors, art that makes you want to pause, and a vibe that quietly says, “Stay awhile.” It’s chic, but never intimidating. Elevated, but down-to-earth.
I ordered a glass and found myself settling into the ambiance without even trying. Couples were leaning in closer. Friends were laughing. The slow pace, the curated wines, the shared plates — everything is built to spark connection.
As someone who lives and breathes meaningful conversation, I felt instantly at ease.
Why I Think It’s a Perfect Date Spot
Here’s what makes Joui Wine such a great setting for connection — whether it’s a first date or a deeper chapter of your relationship:
The ambiance encourages conversation
The natural light, cozy interior, and relaxed bar setting make it easy to tune into the person across from you. No distractions, no pressure — just good energy.
Shared plates create a natural flow
The wine list is thoughtful without feeling overwhelming, and the small plates — cheeses, charcuterie, dips — encourage exactly the kind of slower, shared experience that I love recommending to clients.
It feels special without being performative
There’s no need to impress. Just be present. That’s the whole heart behind intentional dating.
Amanda’s Tips for Making the Most of Your Date at Joui Wine
Grab one of the front-window seats if you can — they’re my favorite spot for people-watching and soft sunlight.
Take your time with the wine list. Ask questions. Let the staff guide you to something new.
After your visit, take a stroll through the Fire Blocks District. It’s walkable, vibrant, and full of little discoveries that naturally keep a date flowing.
Keep your pace slow. Joui is meant to be an experience, not a rush.
Why Joui Wine Aligns With The Crush Confidential Philosophy
I’m a firm believer that the spaces we choose shape the quality of our connections. Joui Wine is a perfect example of a place that supports meaningful, present-minded dating.
It’s intentional.
It’s warm.
It’s conducive to real chemistry.
And most of all — it was created by a woman who understands the importance of crafting an experience that brings people together. That’s something I will always support.
Ready to Date More Intentionally?
If you’re looking to elevate your dating life, I’d love to help you approach relationships with the same thoughtfulness that Lauren put into Joui Wine.
You can create a complimentary profile with The Crush Confidential, and maybe plan your next great conversation over a beautiful glass of wine at Joui.
