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As a matchmaker, I’m constantly exploring new places where connection can happen — the kind of spaces that make people feel at ease, inspired, and open to something meaningful. Recently, I had the chance to tour The Mansion on Monument, and I can confidently say: this is one of Dayton’s most charming new date spots.

What makes it even better?
It’s not just a beautiful space — it’s a story of vision, restoration, and collaboration.

The Visionaries Behind the Restoration

Before I stepped foot inside, I had heard so many wonderful things about the owners, Ashlea and Mike Sogard — and now I know why. Their passion for revitalizing historic Dayton spaces is felt in every detail of the Mansion on Monument. From the thoughtful preservation choices to the intentional amenities, it’s clear this project wasn’t just about renovating a building… it was about bringing a piece of Dayton’s history back to life in a meaningful, elevated way.

Their leadership, creativity, and genuine love for the community set the tone for the entire mansion experience.

Where History Meets Modern Luxury

The Ashgard Group has successfully transformed the historic DeWeese Mansion

into what is now the Mansion on Monument, a boutique hotel with office spaces and amenities that feel both elevated and intentionally curated. After a three-year renovation, the mansion has been restored with so much care — you can feel the respect for its history in every room.

There are only three suites, each furnished with pieces that blend old-world character with modern comfort. Whether someone is booking a staycation, coming into Dayton

for a weekend date, or planning a romantic overnight, these suites make the moment feel special.

My Visit — and a Beautiful Conversation with Leah

When I toured the mansion, I had the privilege of sitting down with Leah Kettering, the Wine Operations Manager. Leah shared how much heart and local intention went into crafting the mansion’s wine offerings and guest experience. Her passion for creating a warm, inviting environment shines through in every detail.

This wasn’t just a tour — it felt like being welcomed into a space built with connection in mind.

A Perfectly Curated Experience

The mansion includes thoughtful amenities that make it an ideal place for a date, a weekend away, or even a little self-care:

A cozy, stylish lounge, perfect for a quiet drink or intimate conversation
A lower-level gym for guests who like to keep their routines
A fully equipped business center for travelers who need to stay productive
A small store featuring local products, souvenirs, essentials, and a curated wine selection

And one of my favorite touches:
The Parlor Boutique — a charming shop inside the mansion filled with locally sourced finds and beautifully curated gifts. It adds personality and warmth to the experience in a way big hotels simply can’t replicate.

Preserving What Matters

What I appreciate most is the intentional work the Ashgard Group put into maintaining the integrity of the original mansion. They kept the architectural charm, honored the history, and elevated it with modern amenities. It feels like Dayton is gaining not just a hotel, but a cultural asset.

Why The Mansion on Monument Makes a Great Date Spot

Whether you’re meeting someone new, planning a romantic night, or looking for a place that feels elevated without being intimidating, this space sets the tone. It’s warm, refined, and full of character — exactly the kind of environment where real connection can unfold.

From the beautifully restored rooms to the wine conversations with Leah to the local touches in The Parlor Boutique, this mansion is more than a place to stay…
It’s a place to experience.

And for anyone dating in Dayton, it’s a place that absolutely deserves a spot on your list. And if you’re ready to elevate your dating life with the same level of intention and care, The Crush Confidential can help. Start by creating your complimentary profile and let us introduce you to someone worth exploring places like this with.

I always say that intentional dating starts with intentional spaces — and recently, I found one that immediately felt like home.

A few weeks ago, I stopped into Joui Wine in Downtown Dayton, and what I thought would be a quick glass of wine turned into a long, thoughtful conversation with its owner, Lauren Gay. We talked about entrepreneurship, taking risks, the power of community, and what it means to create an experience — not just a business.

What I love most is that Lauren launched Joui Wine right around the same time I opened The Crush Confidential. Two women, two visions, both rooted in elevating connection here in Dayton. There’s something special about supporting other local, female-owned businesses who are trying to bring a little more beauty, meaning, and intention into this city. That alignment is rare — and I could feel it instantly with her.

Lauren built Joui Wine with the same mindset that drives my work in matchmaking: slow down, savor the moment, and create an environment where people actually talk. And that’s exactly why this space has become one of my new favorite date-night recommendations.

My Experience at Joui Wine

Walking into Joui feels like entering a thoughtful, design-driven living room — warm lighting, modern interiors, art that makes you want to pause, and a vibe that quietly says, “Stay awhile.” It’s chic, but never intimidating. Elevated, but down-to-earth.

I ordered a glass and found myself settling into the ambiance without even trying. Couples were leaning in closer. Friends were laughing. The slow pace, the curated wines, the shared plates — everything is built to spark connection.

As someone who lives and breathes meaningful conversation, I felt instantly at ease.

Why I Think It’s a Perfect Date Spot

Here’s what makes Joui Wine such a great setting for connection — whether it’s a first date or a deeper chapter of your relationship:

The ambiance encourages conversation

The natural light, cozy interior, and relaxed bar setting make it easy to tune into the person across from you. No distractions, no pressure — just good energy.

Shared plates create a natural flow

The wine list is thoughtful without feeling overwhelming, and the small plates — cheeses, charcuterie, dips — encourage exactly the kind of slower, shared experience that I love recommending to clients.

It feels special without being performative

There’s no need to impress. Just be present. That’s the whole heart behind intentional dating.

Amanda’s Tips for Making the Most of Your Date at Joui Wine

Grab one of the front-window seats if you can — they’re my favorite spot for people-watching and soft sunlight.
Take your time with the wine list. Ask questions. Let the staff guide you to something new.
After your visit, take a stroll through the Fire Blocks District. It’s walkable, vibrant, and full of little discoveries that naturally keep a date flowing.
Keep your pace slow. Joui is meant to be an experience, not a rush.

Why Joui Wine Aligns With The Crush Confidential Philosophy

I’m a firm believer that the spaces we choose shape the quality of our connections. Joui Wine is a perfect example of a place that supports meaningful, present-minded dating.

It’s intentional.
It’s warm.
It’s conducive to real chemistry.

And most of all — it was created by a woman who understands the importance of crafting an experience that brings people together. That’s something I will always support.

Ready to Date More Intentionally?

If you’re looking to elevate your dating life, I’d love to help you approach relationships with the same thoughtfulness that Lauren put into Joui Wine.

You can create a complimentary profile with The Crush Confidential, and maybe plan your next great conversation over a beautiful glass of wine at Joui.

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