As a matchmaker, I’m constantly exploring new places where connection can happen — the kind of spaces that make people feel at ease, inspired, and open to something meaningful. Recently, I had the chance to tour The Mansion on Monument, and I can confidently say: this is one of Dayton’s most charming new date spots.
What makes it even better?
It’s not just a beautiful space — it’s a story of vision, restoration, and collaboration.
The Visionaries Behind the Restoration
Before I stepped foot inside, I had heard so many wonderful things about the owners, Ashlea and Mike Sogard — and now I know why. Their passion for revitalizing historic Dayton spaces is felt in every detail of the Mansion on Monument. From the thoughtful preservation choices to the intentional amenities, it’s clear this project wasn’t just about renovating a building… it was about bringing a piece of Dayton’s history back to life in a meaningful, elevated way.
Their leadership, creativity, and genuine love for the community set the tone for the entire mansion experience.
Where History Meets Modern Luxury
The Ashgard Group has successfully transformed the historic DeWeese Mansion
into what is now the Mansion on Monument, a boutique hotel with office spaces and amenities that feel both elevated and intentionally curated. After a three-year renovation, the mansion has been restored with so much care — you can feel the respect for its history in every room.
There are only three suites, each furnished with pieces that blend old-world character with modern comfort. Whether someone is booking a staycation, coming into Dayton
for a weekend date, or planning a romantic overnight, these suites make the moment feel special.
My Visit — and a Beautiful Conversation with Leah
When I toured the mansion, I had the privilege of sitting down with Leah Kettering, the Wine Operations Manager. Leah shared how much heart and local intention went into crafting the mansion’s wine offerings and guest experience. Her passion for creating a warm, inviting environment shines through in every detail.
This wasn’t just a tour — it felt like being welcomed into a space built with connection in mind.
A Perfectly Curated Experience
The mansion includes thoughtful amenities that make it an ideal place for a date, a weekend away, or even a little self-care:
A cozy, stylish lounge, perfect for a quiet drink or intimate conversation
A lower-level gym for guests who like to keep their routines
A fully equipped business center for travelers who need to stay productive
A small store featuring local products, souvenirs, essentials, and a curated wine selection
And one of my favorite touches:
The Parlor Boutique — a charming shop inside the mansion filled with locally sourced finds and beautifully curated gifts. It adds personality and warmth to the experience in a way big hotels simply can’t replicate.
Preserving What Matters
What I appreciate most is the intentional work the Ashgard Group put into maintaining the integrity of the original mansion. They kept the architectural charm, honored the history, and elevated it with modern amenities. It feels like Dayton is gaining not just a hotel, but a cultural asset.
Why The Mansion on Monument Makes a Great Date Spot
Whether you’re meeting someone new, planning a romantic night, or looking for a place that feels elevated without being intimidating, this space sets the tone. It’s warm, refined, and full of character — exactly the kind of environment where real connection can unfold.
From the beautifully restored rooms to the wine conversations with Leah to the local touches in The Parlor Boutique, this mansion is more than a place to stay…
It’s a place to experience.
And for anyone dating in Dayton, it’s a place that absolutely deserves a spot on your list. And if you’re ready to elevate your dating life with the same level of intention and care, The Crush Confidential can help. Start by creating your complimentary profile and let us introduce you to someone worth exploring places like this with.