Amanda Hood, Author at The Crush Confidential

A Hidden Gem for Dayton Dates: The Mansion on Monument

Posted on December 5, 2025December 5, 2025 by Amanda Hood

As a matchmaker, I’m constantly exploring new places where connection can happen — the kind of spaces that make people feel at ease, inspired, and open to something meaningful. Recently, I had the chance to tour The Mansion on Monument, and I can confidently say: this is one of Dayton’s most charming new date spots.

What makes it even better?
It’s not just a beautiful space — it’s a story of vision, restoration, and collaboration.

The Visionaries Behind the Restoration

Before I stepped foot inside, I had heard so many wonderful things about the owners, Ashlea and Mike Sogard — and now I know why. Their passion for revitalizing historic Dayton spaces is felt in every detail of the Mansion on Monument. From the thoughtful preservation choices to the intentional amenities, it’s clear this project wasn’t just about renovating a building… it was about bringing a piece of Dayton’s history back to life in a meaningful, elevated way.

Their leadership, creativity, and genuine love for the community set the tone for the entire mansion experience.

Where History Meets Modern Luxury

The Ashgard Group has successfully transformed the historic DeWeese Mansion

into what is now the Mansion on Monument, a boutique hotel with office spaces and amenities that feel both elevated and intentionally curated. After a three-year renovation, the mansion has been restored with so much care — you can feel the respect for its history in every room.

There are only three suites, each furnished with pieces that blend old-world character with modern comfort. Whether someone is booking a staycation, coming into Dayton

for a weekend date, or planning a romantic overnight, these suites make the moment feel special.

My Visit — and a Beautiful Conversation with Leah

When I toured the mansion, I had the privilege of sitting down with Leah Kettering, the Wine Operations Manager. Leah shared how much heart and local intention went into crafting the mansion’s wine offerings and guest experience. Her passion for creating a warm, inviting environment shines through in every detail.

This wasn’t just a tour — it felt like being welcomed into a space built with connection in mind.

A Perfectly Curated Experience

The mansion includes thoughtful amenities that make it an ideal place for a date, a weekend away, or even a little self-care:

A cozy, stylish lounge, perfect for a quiet drink or intimate conversation
A lower-level gym for guests who like to keep their routines
A fully equipped business center for travelers who need to stay productive
A small store featuring local products, souvenirs, essentials, and a curated wine selection

And one of my favorite touches:
The Parlor Boutique — a charming shop inside the mansion filled with locally sourced finds and beautifully curated gifts. It adds personality and warmth to the experience in a way big hotels simply can’t replicate.

Preserving What Matters

What I appreciate most is the intentional work the Ashgard Group put into maintaining the integrity of the original mansion. They kept the architectural charm, honored the history, and elevated it with modern amenities. It feels like Dayton is gaining not just a hotel, but a cultural asset.

Why The Mansion on Monument Makes a Great Date Spot

Whether you’re meeting someone new, planning a romantic night, or looking for a place that feels elevated without being intimidating, this space sets the tone. It’s warm, refined, and full of character — exactly the kind of environment where real connection can unfold.

From the beautifully restored rooms to the wine conversations with Leah to the local touches in The Parlor Boutique, this mansion is more than a place to stay…
It’s a place to experience.

And for anyone dating in Dayton, it’s a place that absolutely deserves a spot on your list. And if you’re ready to elevate your dating life with the same level of intention and care, The Crush Confidential can help. Start by creating your complimentary profile and let us introduce you to someone worth exploring places like this with.

Modern Dating Terms You Need to Know in 2025: A Guide to Today’s Relationship Language

Posted on November 26, 2025November 26, 2025 by Amanda Hood

Modern dating moves fast—and so does the language around it. New terms seem to pop up every time you open Instagram, TikTok, or your favorite dating app. As Amber Samuels, Ph.D., notes, this shared vocabulary creates connection and helps people make sense of the experiences they’re navigating.

At The Crush Confidential, where we guide singles through today’s ever-evolving dating culture, we see firsthand how helpful this modern “dictionary” can be. Below is your A-to-Z breakdown of the most popular dating terms in 2025—what they mean, why they matter, and how understanding them can improve your approach to love.

Affordating

Affordating refers to choosing low-cost or budget-friendly date ideas without compromising the quality of the experience. It reflects the growing trend toward mindful spending and intentional connection.

Benching

Benching happens when someone keeps a romantic interest “on the sidelines” while actively pursuing other people. They maintain occasional contact—just enough to keep the person interested—without committing to anything meaningful.

Breadcrumbing

Breadcrumbing involves sending minimal, inconsistent signals of interest (like sporadic texts or likes) to keep someone emotionally hooked without progressing toward an actual relationship.

Catfishing

Catfishing is when a person pretends to be someone else online by using fake photos or misleading information. This can range from minor image editing to creating entirely fabricated identities.

Conscious Uncoupling

Conscious uncoupling is a thoughtful, respectful approach to ending a relationship. It prioritizes clear communication, emotional closure, and reducing harm for both people involved.

Cuffing Season

Cuffing season describes the fall and winter months when many people seek temporary relationships or companionship. These connections may or may not last beyond the season.

DINK

DINK stands for “dual income, no kids” and refers to couples who both earn income and have chosen (temporarily or long-term) not to have children.

DTR

DTR means “define the relationship.” It’s the conversation where two people clarify what they are — dating, exclusive, serious, casual, or somewhere in between.

50/50

“50/50” is the debate about how equally partners should split finances, chores, and responsibilities in a relationship. The term often comes up when discussing fairness and expectations.

FLR

FLR stands for “female-led relationship,” where the woman takes a more prominent role in decision-making, finances, structure, or leadership within the relationship.

FWB

FWB, or friends with benefits, describes two friends who maintain a friendship while also engaging in physical intimacy without a romantic commitment.

Gaslighting

Gaslighting is a form of manipulation where one person causes the other to doubt their memory, perception, or reality. It often involves denial, blame-shifting, or trivializing emotions.

Ghosting

Ghosting is abruptly cutting off all communication without explanation. The person receiving the silence is left without closure, clarity, or understanding of what went wrong.

Green Flags

Green flags are positive signs — consistency, communication, emotional safety, reliability — that indicate someone has healthy qualities suitable for a relationship.

Hard Launch

A hard launch is a clear, public announcement of a new relationship on social media, typically revealing a partner’s face, name, or the relationship status directly.

The Ick

The ick is a sudden feeling of discomfort or repulsion toward someone you were previously interested in. It’s often triggered by a specific behavior or moment.

Love Bombing

Love bombing is overwhelming someone with affection, gifts, compliments, or attention early in dating. It can be genuine in rare cases, but often it is manipulative or rooted in insecurity.

Micro-Cheating

Micro-cheating refers to small behaviors that cross emotional boundaries, such as flirty messages, secret interactions, or maintaining dating profiles while in a relationship.

Negging

Negging involves giving someone backhanded compliments or subtle insults to undermine their confidence and increase their desire for approval from the person delivering them.

Orbiting

Orbiting is when someone ends communication but continues watching your stories, liking your posts, or engaging with your social media. They stay “in your orbit” without actual contact.

Red Flags

Red flags are warning signs that a person or relationship may not be healthy — disrespect, inconsistency, hot-and-cold behavior, poor communication, dishonesty, or boundary violations.

Rizz

Short for charisma, rizz describes someone’s ability to charm, flirt, or attract others through personality, confidence, or presence.

Ship

Short for “relationship,” to “ship” someone is to support or encourage two people becoming a couple — whether fictional characters or real individuals.

Situationship

A situationship sits between casual dating and a relationship — emotional or physical closeness without clear commitment, labels, or expectations.

Slow Fade

A slow fade is a gradual withdrawal of communication or effort instead of an abrupt ghosting. Messages become less frequent, plans decline, and interest fades without explanation.

Soft Launch

A soft launch is a subtle social-media reveal of a relationship, such as posting a partner’s hand, shoes, or a dinner date angle that hides their identity.

Soulmate

A soulmate describes someone with whom you share a deep emotional, romantic, or spiritual connection — often feeling natural, aligned, and meaningful.

Talking Stage

The talking stage is the early phase where two people get to know each other before committing. It can include texting, flirting, and early dates while deciding if a relationship is possible.

Twin Flame

A twin flame refers to an intense spiritual connection believed to represent two halves of the same soul — often passionate, challenging, and transformational.

Zombieing

Zombieing is when someone who ghosted suddenly reappears, acting as though nothing happened — resurfacing with a “Hey stranger” message or unexpected contact.

Final Thoughts

Modern dating comes with its own language, and knowing these terms isn’t just about staying current—it’s about understanding the emotional landscape of relationships today. When you can identify patterns like breadcrumbing, orbiting, or slow fades, you’re better equipped to protect your heart and advocate for what you truly want. And when you recognize green flags, healthy communication styles, and aligned values, you can move toward connection with confidence instead of confusion.

At The Crush Confidential, we see countless singles who feel overwhelmed by the complexities of dating culture—especially those navigating the endless loop of apps, situationships, and mixed signals. What many don’t realize is that modern dating language often reflects modern dating pain points. By naming the experience, you take back control of it.

Our mission is to guide you toward something far more meaningful than trendy terminology: real partnership, genuine compatibility, and the kind of connection that isn’t dependent on timing, swipes, or seasonal flings. Through thoughtful vetting, intentional matching, and ongoing support, we help our clients move out of uncertainty and into clarity. Whether you’re recovering from a zombie, tired of the talking stage, or ready to graduate from situationships altogether, you don’t have to navigate today’s dating landscape alone.

Love may evolve, but the desire for a deep, lasting relationship never goes out of style. If you’re ready for a more intentional, curated approach to dating—one rooted in values, alignment, and authenticity—The Crush Confidential is here to guide your journey every step of the way.

Why Joui Wine Has Become One of My Favorite Spots for Meaningful Connection

Posted on November 19, 2025November 21, 2025 by Amanda Hood

I always say that intentional dating starts with intentional spaces — and recently, I found one that immediately felt like home.

A few weeks ago, I stopped into Joui Wine in Downtown Dayton, and what I thought would be a quick glass of wine turned into a long, thoughtful conversation with its owner, Lauren Gay. We talked about entrepreneurship, taking risks, the power of community, and what it means to create an experience — not just a business.

What I love most is that Lauren launched Joui Wine right around the same time I opened The Crush Confidential. Two women, two visions, both rooted in elevating connection here in Dayton. There’s something special about supporting other local, female-owned businesses who are trying to bring a little more beauty, meaning, and intention into this city. That alignment is rare — and I could feel it instantly with her.

Lauren built Joui Wine with the same mindset that drives my work in matchmaking: slow down, savor the moment, and create an environment where people actually talk. And that’s exactly why this space has become one of my new favorite date-night recommendations.

My Experience at Joui Wine

Walking into Joui feels like entering a thoughtful, design-driven living room — warm lighting, modern interiors, art that makes you want to pause, and a vibe that quietly says, “Stay awhile.” It’s chic, but never intimidating. Elevated, but down-to-earth.

I ordered a glass and found myself settling into the ambiance without even trying. Couples were leaning in closer. Friends were laughing. The slow pace, the curated wines, the shared plates — everything is built to spark connection.

As someone who lives and breathes meaningful conversation, I felt instantly at ease.

Why I Think It’s a Perfect Date Spot

Here’s what makes Joui Wine such a great setting for connection — whether it’s a first date or a deeper chapter of your relationship:

The ambiance encourages conversation

The natural light, cozy interior, and relaxed bar setting make it easy to tune into the person across from you. No distractions, no pressure — just good energy.

Shared plates create a natural flow

The wine list is thoughtful without feeling overwhelming, and the small plates — cheeses, charcuterie, dips — encourage exactly the kind of slower, shared experience that I love recommending to clients.

It feels special without being performative

There’s no need to impress. Just be present. That’s the whole heart behind intentional dating.

Amanda’s Tips for Making the Most of Your Date at Joui Wine

Grab one of the front-window seats if you can — they’re my favorite spot for people-watching and soft sunlight.
Take your time with the wine list. Ask questions. Let the staff guide you to something new.
After your visit, take a stroll through the Fire Blocks District. It’s walkable, vibrant, and full of little discoveries that naturally keep a date flowing.
Keep your pace slow. Joui is meant to be an experience, not a rush.

Why Joui Wine Aligns With The Crush Confidential Philosophy

I’m a firm believer that the spaces we choose shape the quality of our connections. Joui Wine is a perfect example of a place that supports meaningful, present-minded dating.

It’s intentional.
It’s warm.
It’s conducive to real chemistry.

And most of all — it was created by a woman who understands the importance of crafting an experience that brings people together. That’s something I will always support.

Ready to Date More Intentionally?

If you’re looking to elevate your dating life, I’d love to help you approach relationships with the same thoughtfulness that Lauren put into Joui Wine.

You can create a complimentary profile with The Crush Confidential, and maybe plan your next great conversation over a beautiful glass of wine at Joui.

The 5 Stages of Relationships — And What Each One Really Means

Posted on November 5, 2025November 5, 2025 by Amanda Hood

Every relationship tells a story—one that unfolds in stages. At The Crush Confidential, we see these stages every day as couples move from the first spark to lasting love. Understanding the stages of relationships

can help you recognize where you are, what you need, and how to grow together.

1. Initiation / Exploration

This is where curiosity and chemistry collide. You’re learning about one another—values, humor, lifestyle, and interests. It’s that exciting (and sometimes uncertain) stage where you’re asking, “Could this be something real?”

At this point, your focus is on connection and compatibility. As a matchmaking company, we encourage singles to approach this stage with openness—ditch the rigid checklist and focus on feeling seen and understood.

For more on what this early phase looks like, check out The 4 Stages of Dating Relationships

2. The Honeymoon / Euphoria Stage

Ah, the butterflies. The 3 phases of love are often most apparent here, when attraction feels magnetic and your brain floods with dopamine and oxytocin. Everything feels effortless and magical.

But it’s important to remember that the honeymoon stage is a chapter, not the whole story. It’s beautiful—but temporary. When the intensity fades, deeper connection begins.

3. Deeper Attachment / Commitment

This is where the real work (and beauty) of love begins. You’re building a shared life—habits, routines, maybe even future plans. The focus shifts from excitement to commitment and shared responsibility.

At The Crush Confidential, our lifestyle alignment assessments help couples navigate this stage by identifying shared values and communication styles early on.

It’s also normal to notice differences here—how you express love, handle conflict, or plan for the future. That’s why our three-date approach encourages clients to explore connection beyond first impressions.

4. Crisis / Repair

Every relationship hits challenges. Misunderstandings, stress, or unmet expectations can test your foundation. But as relationship therapist Esther Perel notes, this stage is not a sign of failure—it’s an invitation to evolve.

Healthy communication, empathy, and adaptability allow couples to work through conflict and come out stronger. Studies on love and relationship satisfaction as a function of romantic relationship stages show that navigating this phase effectively can predict long-term success.

5. Enduring / Wholehearted Love

This is the goal for most couples—the 7 stages of relationships

culminate in an enduring, balanced partnership built on trust and emotional intimacy.

In this stage, love feels secure. The excitement may look different, but the connection is deeper, richer, and more intentional.

At The Crush Confidential, we believe in helping singles find relationships that are not just passionate—but sustainable. Because love that endures isn’t about perfection; it’s about choosing each other, again and again.

Every couple’s journey through the stages of relationships looks a little different. What matters most is not the speed, but the awareness. Recognizing where you are helps you adapt, grow, and love more deeply.

If you’re ready to experience a connection built to last, start your journey with The Crush Confidential today.

What Your Attachment Style Says About Your Love Life

Posted on October 22, 2025October 22, 2025 by Amanda Hood

When it comes to love, how you connect can be just as important as who you connect with. Understanding your attachment style can help you recognize patterns, improve communication, and ultimately build stronger, more fulfilling relationships.

At The Crush Confidential, we see this play out every day — from first introductions to long-term matches. Whether you’re anxiously checking your phone after a first date or tend to keep your guard up for too long, your attachment style can reveal valuable insights into your dating habits and emotional needs.

The Four Main Attachment Styles

Researchers in psychology have identified four key attachment styles that influence how we relate to others romantically.

1. Secure Attachment
If you have a secure attachment style, you likely feel comfortable with closeness and independence. You communicate openly, trust easily, and handle conflict with maturity. People with this style tend to thrive in long-term relationships because they aren’t afraid of emotional intimacy.

Tip: Keep leading with authenticity — and if you’re single, know that your confidence and emotional availability are deeply attractive qualities.

2. Anxious Attachment
Anxiously attached individuals crave closeness but often worry about being abandoned or rejected. You might overthink messages or feel uneasy when your partner pulls away.

At The Crush Confidential, we often encourage clients with this attachment style to slow down and focus on genuine compatibility rather than immediate reassurance. Real security comes from within.

3. Avoidant Attachment
If you tend to keep emotional distance or struggle to open up, you might fall into the avoidant category. Independence feels safe — but sometimes at the expense of deeper connection.

Avoidant individuals can benefit from intentional dating strategies that focus on gradual vulnerability and honest communication.

4. Anxious-Avoidant (or Fearful-Avoidant) Attachment
This combination can make dating feel like an emotional tug-of-war. You want love but fear it at the same time, leading to push-and-pull dynamics. Recognizing this pattern is the first step toward healing it — and toward healthier, more stable relationships.

How Attachment Styles Affect Dating

Your attachment style can shape everything — how you text, handle conflict, or even interpret a partner’s silence.
For example, in our recent Toronto Sun feature, Amanda Hood, founder of The Crush Confidential, explained how communication styles aren’t one-size-fits-all. Understanding emotional tendencies helps daters create space for honest dialogue and less misunderstanding.

If you recognize anxious or avoidant tendencies, working with a matchmaker can help you date differently — with more clarity, confidence, and emotional awareness.

Building Healthier Relationships

At The Crush Confidential, we guide clients to date with intention through our Three-Date Model — helping them explore connection beyond surface attraction and initial nerves. This approach gives time for trust and understanding to grow naturally, regardless of attachment style.

Want to see what your dating patterns might be telling you? Create your complimentary profile today, and let’s find someone who meets you where you are — and grows with you.

Why Your Match’s Communication Style Matters More Than You Think

Posted on October 15, 2025October 15, 2025 by Amanda Hood

When it comes to love, attraction might spark the connection — but communication keeps it alive. Whether it’s the way they text, talk, or show affection, your match’s communication style can make or break a budding relationship.

At The Crush Confidential, we’ve seen countless love stories blossom when two people simply get how the other communicates. Because real compatibility isn’t just about shared interests — it’s about feeling understood.

The Hidden Language of Connection

Everyone expresses themselves differently. Some people prefer deep conversations, while others show affection through small gestures. When your communication styles align, trust builds effortlessly. But when they don’t, even minor misunderstandings can feel magnified.

Studies from Psychology Today show that communication habits are one of the top predictors of long-term relationship success. It’s not just what you say — it’s how you say it.

Why It Matters in Modern Dating

In today’s world of constant digital connection, communication styles play a bigger role than ever. From texting frequency to tone, everyone has a different rhythm. Some prefer quick, playful messages throughout the day. Others value quality over quantity — choosing to save the deep conversations for face-to-face moments.

At The Crush Confidential, we take these nuances into account. During our client discovery process, we help identify your natural communication tendencies and match you with someone whose style complements your own.

Because when you can speak the same emotional language, everything just flows.

The 3-Date Model: Where Communication Finds Its Rhythm

That’s why we encourage our signature 3-Date Model — a proven way to give genuine connection the time it deserves. Chemistry often takes time to unfold, and communication needs a few chances to find its rhythm.

By the third date, you’ll usually know whether your styles truly align — and whether you can build something lasting together.

How to Identify Your Own Communication Style

Want to get better at understanding (and expressing) yourself? Start by noticing:

How do you show affection? Through words, actions, or time?
How do you handle conflict? Do you need space, or do you talk it out immediately?
How do you feel most connected? Through frequent messages or deeper in-person talks?

Understanding your own preferences is the first step toward finding someone who complements them.

Ready to Find Your Communication Match?

If you’re ready to date with clarity and intention, let’s talk. Our personalized matchmaking process at The Crush Confidential isn’t just about introductions — it’s about compatibility on every level, including communication.

Discover how it feels to finally meet someone who speaks your language — literally and emotionally.

The 3-Date Model: Why Chemistry Takes Time to Reveal Itself

Posted on October 8, 2025October 8, 2025 by Amanda Hood

In the world of modern dating—where everything moves at lightning speed—it’s easy to write someone off after one mediocre first date. But at The Crush Confidential, we’ve learned that real chemistry often takes time to unfold. That’s why we developed our signature 3-Date Model—a simple but powerful approach that gives connection the chance to grow naturally.

The Myth of Instant Chemistry

Many singles believe they’ll just know right away. Movies, social media, and dating apps have conditioned us to expect instant butterflies or “spark” moments. But according to psychology research on attraction, that immediate rush is often based on novelty or appearance—not true compatibility.

Amanda Hood, founder of The Crush Confidential, has seen this pattern countless times. “People often confuse physical chemistry with emotional compatibility,” she says. “Some of the strongest couples we’ve matched didn’t have fireworks on the first date—it took time for connection to deepen once they felt comfortable.”

Why Three Dates Matter

The first date is often filled with nerves, guarded conversation, and a desire to impress. By the second date, the pressure eases—you can be yourself, share stories, and get curious. By the third, you start to see how you feel around that person when it’s not a performance.

Our 3-Date Model encourages daters to give each introduction the space it deserves. You’re not deciding on marriage after three dates—you’re simply deciding if you want to keep exploring.

This philosophy is also backed by relationship science: studies show that emotional safety and trust take multiple interactions to build. Real compatibility isn’t instant—it’s revealed.

When Chemistry Evolves Slowly

Some of the most successful couples we’ve worked with didn’t feel an immediate “click.” What they discovered, however, was comfort, laughter, and mutual respect—qualities that deepen attraction far more than fleeting chemistry.

If you’ve ever said, “They were nice, but I didn’t feel a spark,” consider whether you truly gave connection a chance to grow. Often, what begins as “nice” can evolve into extraordinary once comfort replaces nerves.

How The Crush Confidential Supports Intentional Dating

Unlike dating apps where choices feel endless, The Crush Confidential uses intuition, data, and real human insight to make thoughtful introductions. We guide clients through each stage—helping them reflect after each date and recognize the difference between fleeting attraction and meaningful compatibility.

We don’t just match people—we help them date with clarity.

If you’re ready to slow down, date with purpose, and explore real connection through our proven 3-Date Model, visit thecrushconfidential.com to learn more.

The Gentleman’s Guide to First Date Confidence

Posted on October 1, 2025October 1, 2025 by Amanda Hood

First dates can feel like a high-stakes interview—exciting but also nerve-wracking. For many men, the pressure to impress can get in the way of authentic connection. The truth is, first date confidence for men doesn’t come from flashy gestures or rehearsed lines. It comes from preparation, presence, and self-awareness.

At The Crush Confidential, we help men approach dating with clarity and purpose. Here’s how you can walk into your next date feeling calm, collected, and confident.

1. Style is Your Silent Introduction

Before you say a word, your style communicates volumes. Choosing an outfit that feels both authentic and polished sets the tone for the evening. Think timeless classics over trendy statements—tailored shirts, clean shoes, and subtle details show that you value yourself and the person you’re meeting.

For inspiration, GQ’s style guide for men is a great place to start. And if you want personalized support, check out our services where we help clients refine their first impression.

2. Body Language Builds Connection

Research shows that nonverbal cues often matter more than words in creating attraction. Standing tall, maintaining good posture, and leaning in slightly during conversation all project self-assurance. A firm handshake and genuine smile go a long way in building trust.

Remember, first date confidence for men is not about dominance—it’s about showing comfort in your own skin.

According to Psychology Today, body language accounts for the majority of how we communicate. Remember, first date confidence for men is not about dominance—it’s about showing comfort in your own skin. You can also read more about communication styles in relationships on our blog.

3. Curiosity Over Performance

Many men mistakenly think they need to perform on a first date, filling every silence or impressing with achievements. Instead, shift the focus: ask thoughtful questions, listen actively, and engage with genuine curiosity. When your date feels truly seen and heard, attraction naturally grows.

The art of active listening builds trust and connection. When your date feels truly seen and heard, attraction naturally grows. At The Crush Confidential, we guide our clients on how to transform nervous energy into genuine engagement.

4. Keep the First Date Light

A first date isn’t the time for heavy talks about politics, ex-relationships, or long-term financial strategies. Stay in the moment, enjoy the conversation, and keep things light and fun. Confidence comes from knowing when to relax and let things flow.

Men’s Journal has great reads on lifestyle and dating topics that can give you conversational inspiration. For deeper strategies, our blog on The 3-Date Model explains why pacing is key to building a genuine relationship.

5. End on a Confident Note

How you end the night leaves a lasting impression. Thank your date sincerely, offer a clear next step if you’d like to see them again, and follow up with a message the next day. Confidence isn’t just in the beginning—it’s in how you close.

If you want personalized guidance, book a consultation with The Crush Confidential to learn how to approach dating with strategy and confidence.

Final Thoughts

Building first date confidence for men is less about tricks and more about alignment—between how you present yourself, how you connect, and how you carry the evening. When confidence and authenticity meet, real attraction follows.

At The Crush Confidential, we specialize in helping men bring out their best selves in dating, from first impressions to long-term connections. Because every gentleman deserves not just a date, but the right relationship.

How to Know If You’re Truly Ready to Date Again After Divorce

Posted on September 24, 2025October 8, 2025 by Amanda Hood

Starting over after a divorce can feel overwhelming. Some people feel pressure to jump back in right away, while others wait years before dipping a toe into the dating pool again. The truth is, there’s no universal timeline for when you should begin — but there are signs that can help you know if you’re ready to pursue love again.

At The Crush Confidential, we often work with clients who are navigating this very transition. Whether it’s been months or years since your divorce, the most important thing is clarity — both about what you want and what you’re ready to give.

1. You’ve Processed the Past

If thoughts of your ex dominate your mind or you feel unresolved anger or sadness, it may be too soon. Healing first allows you to enter dating with openness instead of comparison. Seeking support from a trusted therapist or resources like DivorceCare can be an important step toward moving forward.

2. You Know What You’re Looking For

Post-divorce dating offers a chance to redefine what you want. Are you looking for a life partner, companionship, or simply the excitement of meeting new people? Getting clear on your goals helps prevent confusion and wasted time — for both you and your potential partner. For some, that’s where matchmaking services like our 3-date model can help, giving structure and clarity to the process.

3. You’re Comfortable Being Independent

One of the healthiest signs that you’re ready is enjoying your independence. If you feel whole on your own and see dating as an enhancement — not a solution — you’re in the right mindset to attract the right match.

4. You Have Time and Energy to Invest

Dating takes effort. From planning and showing up to staying emotionally present, it’s important to ask yourself: Do I have the bandwidth for this? If the answer is yes, you’re far more likely to find success. For single parents, Amanda recently shared in Now in the Nati that making time and prioritizing your dating journey is essential.

5. You’re Ready to Be Vulnerable Again

Love requires vulnerability. If you feel open to sharing your story, hopes, and dreams with someone new, you’ve likely turned a corner in your healing journey.

Moving Forward With Confidence

Dating after divorce isn’t about forgetting the past — it’s about writing a new chapter. With patience, intentionality, and the right guidance, love can absolutely find you again.

If you’re curious about how The Crush Confidential supports singles navigating this stage of life, explore our client success stories or reach out for a confidential consultation.

The Crush Confidential Featured in Toronto Sun: Why Communication Styles Aren’t One-Size-Fits-All

Posted on September 17, 2025September 17, 2025 by Amanda Hood

We’re thrilled to share that The Crush Confidential was recently featured in the Toronto Sun! The article, written by relationship columnist Simone Paget, explored how communication styles can make or break connections in modern dating.

Amanda Hood, founder of The Crush Confidential, shared her perspective:

“In today’s dating culture, texts are where new relationships go to die.”

Her insight was included alongside expert commentary from psychologists and relationship therapists, underscoring the importance of communication beyond just words on a screen.

Why This Feature Matters

In the Toronto Sun article, Amanda joined experts like Suzannah Weiss, a sex and relationship therapist, and couples therapist Thomas Westenholz, to discuss the nuances of communication in relationships.

The feature highlighted how:

Voice notes can add warmth and intimacy, but may also create a false sense of closeness.
Texting is convenient, but prone to misinterpretation and emotional distance.
Face-to-face interactions remain the most effective way to truly connect and avoid misunderstandings.

Amanda’s contribution emphasized what we see every day at The Crush Confidential: compatibility isn’t just about values or lifestyle, but also about how people express themselves and build connection.

Our Approach at The Crush Confidential

At The Crush Confidential, we believe that great relationships start with great communication. That’s why our luxury matchmaking services don’t just focus on introductions — we also coach our clients on how to navigate communication styles effectively.

Whether it’s setting healthy boundaries around texting, encouraging more phone and FaceTime conversations, or guiding couples toward meaningful in-person interactions, we take a holistic approach.

Want to learn more about how we help clients? Explore our story on why the three-date model works for building authentic connections.

A Growing Conversation in Modern Dating

The Toronto Sun feature reminds us that communication is more than a preference — it’s a reflection of emotional needs, attachment styles, and how people connect in today’s fast-paced world.

For example:

Suzannah Weiss points out that texts can easily be misread, leading to unnecessary tension.
Couples therapist Thomas Westenholz highlights how our brains fill in gaps negatively when tone and body language are missing.
Amanda Hood emphasizes that relying too heavily on texting often undermines the very intimacy people are trying to build.

Final Thoughts

We’re honored to be part of this important conversation featured in the Toronto Sun. Communication isn’t one-size-fits-all — but when approached intentionally, it can become the strongest foundation for love.

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