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The Crush Confidential Featured in Toronto Sun: Why Communication Styles Aren’t One-Size-Fits-All

Amanda Hood of The Crush Confidential featured in Toronto Sun article about communication styles in dating.

We’re thrilled to share that The Crush Confidential was recently featured in the Toronto Sun! The article, written by relationship columnist Simone Paget, explored how communication styles can make or break connections in modern dating.

Amanda Hood, founder of The Crush Confidential, shared her perspective:

“In today’s dating culture, texts are where new relationships go to die.”

Her insight was included alongside expert commentary from psychologists and relationship therapists, underscoring the importance of communication beyond just words on a screen.


Why This Feature Matters

In the Toronto Sun article, Amanda joined experts like Suzannah Weiss, a sex and relationship therapist, and couples therapist Thomas Westenholz, to discuss the nuances of communication in relationships.

The feature highlighted how:

  • Voice notes can add warmth and intimacy, but may also create a false sense of closeness.

  • Texting is convenient, but prone to misinterpretation and emotional distance.

  • Face-to-face interactions remain the most effective way to truly connect and avoid misunderstandings.

Amanda’s contribution emphasized what we see every day at The Crush Confidential: compatibility isn’t just about values or lifestyle, but also about how people express themselves and build connection.


Our Approach at The Crush Confidential

At The Crush Confidential, we believe that great relationships start with great communication. That’s why our luxury matchmaking services don’t just focus on introductions — we also coach our clients on how to navigate communication styles effectively.

Whether it’s setting healthy boundaries around texting, encouraging more phone and FaceTime conversations, or guiding couples toward meaningful in-person interactions, we take a holistic approach.

Want to learn more about how we help clients? Explore our story on why the three-date model works for building authentic connections.


A Growing Conversation in Modern Dating

The Toronto Sun feature reminds us that communication is more than a preference — it’s a reflection of emotional needs, attachment styles, and how people connect in today’s fast-paced world.

For example:

  • Suzannah Weiss points out that texts can easily be misread, leading to unnecessary tension.

  • Couples therapist Thomas Westenholz highlights how our brains fill in gaps negatively when tone and body language are missing.

  • Amanda Hood emphasizes that relying too heavily on texting often undermines the very intimacy people are trying to build.


Final Thoughts

We’re honored to be part of this important conversation featured in the Toronto Sun. Communication isn’t one-size-fits-all — but when approached intentionally, it can become the strongest foundation for love.

At The Crush Confidential, our mission is to help singles navigate modern dating with clarity, honesty, and heart.

👉 Learn more about our boutique matchmaking approach or book a call to see how we can support your journey to lasting love.

The Three-Date Rule: Why You Shouldn’t Judge Compatibility Too Quickly

three date rule in modern dating

When it comes to dating, first impressions carry a lot of weight. But at The Crush Confidential, we believe that real compatibility takes time to reveal itself. That’s why we encourage all of our clients to embrace what we call the Three-Date Rule.

Too often, people dismiss a potential partner after just one meeting — maybe the conversation wasn’t effortless, maybe nerves got in the way, or maybe the “spark” wasn’t instant. But here’s the truth: genuine chemistry often needs space to grow.


Why Three Dates Matter

  1. First-Date Nerves Are Real
    Many singles put too much pressure on the first date. You’re both trying to impress, gauge compatibility, and decide if there’s a future — all in a single evening. No wonder it feels overwhelming! By the second or third date, those walls start to come down and authenticity has a chance to shine.

    (Curious why first impressions aren’t always accurate? Check out Psychology Today’s research on first impressions.)

  2. Chemistry Can Be Subtle
    Attraction doesn’t always strike like lightning. Sometimes, it builds slowly as you discover shared values, humor, and lifestyle alignment. A person who feels “just okay” on date one might feel like an amazing match by date three.

    (Related: our blog on How to Spot Your Relationship Green Flags dives deeper into this idea.)

  3. Lifestyle Alignment Takes Time
    One of the most important parts of a lasting relationship is whether your day-to-day lives and long-term goals truly fit together. These aren’t always obvious in the first conversation, but a few dates in, you’ll start to notice how naturally your rhythms align.

    (See also: The Gottman Institute’s research on long-term compatibility.)


How to Approach the Three-Date Rule

  • Go in with curiosity, not judgment. Instead of looking for red flags on date one, try noticing small green flags that could grow into something meaningful.

  • Be open to surprises. The person who doesn’t immediately sweep you off your feet might actually be the partner who fits your lifestyle and future best.

  • Give yourself permission to slow down. Love isn’t a race, and taking three dates to decide is a way of investing in your future clarity.

For more on this approach, read our blog: Intentional Dating: Why Slowing Down Leads to Stronger Connections.


The Bottom Line

The Three-Date Rule is not about forcing chemistry that isn’t there — it’s about giving compatibility the chance to show up. At The Crush Confidential, we’ve seen countless success stories come from clients who were patient enough to let sparks turn into something lasting.

So before you say “no” after one date, consider saying “yes” to two more. You might be surprised at the connection waiting to unfold.